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Calling all female entrepreneurs!

I’ve heard it said that character is doing what is right when nobody is looking.

Maybe it is just me, but it seem as though personal excellence is highly undervalued these days. People have come to expect mediocrity.

It seems that most people are simply happy to just “get by.”

Unfortunately, if you plan to reach your maximum potential, accepting a life of mediocrity won’t get you there. Take look at the ultra successful people in this world and you will see that they are simply the best at what they do. There is only one Steve Jobs, one Sam Walton, one Rolls Royce, and one Ben & Jerry’s (can we say yummm).

These large corporate examples may seem like an apple to oranges comparison to you, but they are pillars of what it means to operate in excellence.

Let me ask you, how many people do you know who complain about not having or doing what they want? And, how many of those people are going above and beyond to reach for more? So many people dedicate their time to looking for an easy way out, looking for a get rich quick fix, or looking for a magic pill. Let me tell you a secret. There is no such thing.

I have a friend who desperately wants to climb the corporate ladder to an executive position some day. This friend chronically complains about her supervisor’s lack of intelligence. She complains about her “annoying” co-workers. She complains about the company’s dysfunctional systems. And, she always seems to think she could do a much better job.

This same friend gets to work at least 5 minutes late every day. She takes an hour and ten minute lunch break, and spends most of her afternoon on Facebook. Oh, and wouldn’t you know, she’s out the door by 5:01 every day—4:59 on Fridays.

Basically, she’s on the fast track to never seeing an executive position in her life!

Maybe her current supervisor isn’t brilliant, but unfortunately they are in the authority position. Instead of bringing her negative attitude to her work, she would probably be better served to focus on how she can bring her great ideas to the top by working harder. She should probably commit to doing more than is expected of her. And she should be willing to make herself available when one else will.

That would make her a person of excellence.

I’ve found that this principle of excellence is critical to my success as a young female entrepreneur. You cannot produce average products and services and expect to have a million dollar business. If excellence isn’t central to your business model, you will simply become another me-too couldn’t hack it business owner.

If you plan to be as successful female entrepreneur online then you must pledge to produce quality products that meet the needs of your target audience. If not, don’t get in the game. It’s already flooded with bozos.

However, if you do apply the principle of excellence to everything you do. You will have more opportunity in life than you know what to do with. That is the advantage of truly seeking excellence.

Ninety percent of your competition is putting forth a half-baked effort. Set yourself up for success. Always maintain your integrity. The world needs women of excellence to lead the way.

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Coffin restIn “real life” I’m a complete social butterfly. I’m an ENFJ. I will talk to anyone, anywhere, about anything. It’s just who I am.

I do really well making authentic connections in the real world.  As for making connections online, I totally suck at it!

BIG TIME.

And it got me thinking, is it just me or is “making friends” through social media difficult?

Now, I’m not talking about getting followers on Twitter, fans on Facebook, or subscribers to your blog. A bot can do that. I’m talking about making real (virtual), live (digital), human (via the Internet) connections.

I’ve read all the how-to articles on using social media. I’ve followed the advice of social media moguls around the net. I’ve attempted the just-be-yourself in social media mindset. I’ve approached Twitter and Facebook as a place to hang out and make friends. And, I’m failing miserably at achieving my goal.

My Goal

I want to connect with other female entrepreneurs with a passion for online business. I want to have real conversations with the young, fierce, and brilliant females who want to pursue their passions to the fullest. I want to share what I’m learning with them and in turn learn from their experiences.

I want to actually develop relationships that matter, even if I’ve never met the person in-person. I want to be able to a care about what is happening in that woman’s journey, because she has been generous enough to let me get to know her.  Is that too much to ask? Maybe so.

Instead I’ve found Twitter to be a tit for tat – shout it out – the loudest lady wins popularity contest. It’s annoying. It’s annoying when someone tweets a question seeking a response, and you provide a direct response that calls for a reply and it falls on deaf ears.  I feels so one sided. I’m beginning to believe that this whole “engagement” stuff is a bunch of malarkey.

This Isn’t a Social Media Suicide

I’m not complaining about being ignored. I understand that no one owes you their attention. I understand that sometimes you’re too busy or too big, to personally address the attention you get.

I just wish that making genuine connections with the average (young, fierce, brilliant) Jane using social media were a bit easier.

Am I just missing something? If I’m blind, can you help me see?

A Call to “Engagement”

So here I sit asking you to really attempt to engage. If you find me boring, walk on by. If you find me annoying, c’est la vie lovely. But, if you get what I’m saying and you’re not too big or too busy. Let’s connect.

I’ll meet you on Twitter, on Facebook, on your blog or mine. It’s your pick. And if it’s not too much to ask, let’s actually connect over something.

Nothing major. Nothing mind-shattering. We can keep it simple.

You decide what you want to share. I’ll be here with open eyes and ears.

In the meantime, I’ll continue to flutter around the networks at hand searching for a place to land to sip a cool drink of water.

Creative Commons License photo credit: Tim Green aka atoach

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