Becoming Self-Employed: Is Self-Employment Really For Me? (Take This Test And See)

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The allure of self-employment is powerful. Who doesn’t want to be their own boss, work when they want to, from wherever they want to, and have complete control of their income potential?

Unfortunately, it doesn’t really work that way. Becoming self-employed is a life-changing undertaking. I wouldn’t change my decision to become self-employed for anything in the world, but I didn’t decide to become a solopreneur without taking all possible factors into consideration.

Over the next several weeks we are going to dive deep into the world of self-employment, and talk about how to conquer some of the most pressing issues we face a self-employed individuals.

In my opinion, if you’re self-employed you’re an entrepreneur. Lots of people get in a pickle over calling self-employed individuals entrepreneurs, or solopreneurs, or small business owners.

I don’t think it matters.

What matters is that if you are solely responsible for generating your income through the development of a bona fide business, then I think you can call yourself any of the above. As such, I’ll be using the terms interchangeably.

Being self-employed has it fair share of advantages and disadvantages, so let’s talk about those now.

The Advantages of Self-Employment

Personal Fulfillment – If you start your own business for the right reasons, if you serve people that you were meant to serve, and if you truly enjoy what you do, there is no better feeling than making a living from it.

Professional Independence – Being able to call your own shots, establish your own business philosophy, and make your business what you want to be is not just empowering, it’s fun.

Unlimited Income Potential – Elusive as the concept may sound, most of America’s wealthiest individuals were small business owners at one time. That said, extraordinary wealth as a solopreneur is not the norm or average outcome by any measure. Many entrepreneurs make a satisfactory living, and are very happy, despite not being bazillionaires. Going into business for the right reasons to begin with, will greatly impact how you feel about the income you make in the end.

Tax Advantages – Believe it or not, owning a business can make you eligible to make use of tax privileges not available to employees such as deductions for costs, insurance, and an increased cap on tax free retirement savings.

The Disadvantages of Self-Employment

It’s All You – When you first become self-employed EVERYTHING is your responsibility. You can read The E-Myth Revisited by Michael Gerber, but you can count on having a hard time implementing his advice at first. In all likelihood you won’t have the financial resources and training systems in place to build a system for your business from the get-go. It takes time to do that. Juggling everything in your business can get overwhelming and intense. Having the right support in place to get through this start-up phase is essential to your success.

You Live With Uncertainty – Despite what most people think, just because you have a job, doesn’t mean you have financial security. As the last several years have demonstrated, your job can vanish like a vapor. The real difference between being an employee and being self-employed is that your level of psychological security is higher when you’re employed because you expect a paycheck.

This does not exist as a solopreneur. The reality that your income source could cease at any time is palpable when you’re self-employed. Thankfully, if you market your business properly, fill your pipeline with customers, develop multiple income streams, and deliver an amazing product/service so that you build a bona fide business this issue becomes less palpable.

Administrative Matters Are Your Matters – Filing taxes, keeping clean records, invoicing customers, drafting contracts, securing healthcare, obtaining insurance, applying for licenses and complying with regulations are all your problem. Thankfully, it’s not as bad as it sounds, and as you grow your business you can outsource many of these responsibilities. But until that day comes – this is all you too.

You Are The Fall Guy – When you first pursue self-employment, you will make mistakes. It’s part of the learning process. Developing a strong positive attitude and learning to “fail forward” is essential to getting your business of the ground.

You Don’t Really Call The Shots – This is the paradox of self-employment. You are in total control of your time, attention, and effort, but if you’re going to be successful your time attention and effort need to be on building your business. This means you’ll work more than you ever have. You’ll have multiple bosses instead of just one (your clients are your bosses). You’ll be able to work when you want to, but it better be quick and great quality if you want to be paid well for what you do.  Managing your time, establishing balance, and exercising self-discipline are all part of the package for the solopreneur.

These pros and cons are just the “biggies.” There are many more of them too, and that is why it’s so important to know what you are getting into when you jump into self-employment.

Knowing The Good, The Bad, And The Ugly Are You Still Right For Self-Employment?

It’s often said that just because someone can be an entrepreneur, doesn’t mean they should. Personally, I think every individual should perfect their entrepreneurial skill set because you never know when you might be forced to use them. But if given the choice, you should only consider becoming self-employed if you have the right skill set and you’ve got the right reasons.

Of course, having the right products, services, and target market are essential to becoming successfully self-employed as well, but having the right set of intrinsic abilities to see your entrepreneurial pursuits through goes a long way.

Here are some key skills you will have to learn or outsource to become successfully self-employed:

  • Financial Management – You have got to have a handle on your money matters.
  • Marketing & Selling – If you don’t do these things you’ll be out of business before you start. Marketing is the lifeblood of your business.
  • Leadership & Time Management – You are in charge of yourself and everything else; no one will tell you what to do.
  • Confidence – This is hugely important and HUGELY overlooked.
  • Trusted Intuition – You will have to make decisions regularly, and oftentimes without full knowledge.
  • Positive Thinker – If you have a negative bent, rejection, setbacks, and unforeseen obstacles will throw you off course and you can’t afford that.
  • Persistence & Ambition – There is no such thing as overnight success. There is no magic bean. Accept it and get to work.
  • Unrelenting Passion – You’ve got to want to do what you’re doing more than anything else, otherwise go do the other things.

Still Not Sure? Take This Test!

Okay, so keeping in step with my philosophy of making work fun and always giving you actionable advice, I created this little online quiz to help you determine whether or not you are truly cut out for entrepreneurship.

This isn’t a scientific test based on years of research. If you’re looking for something like that try a Myers-Brigg exam. This is simply a guide that will indicate whether or not you have entrepreneurial traits working in your favor. It’s fun. So try it!

Then be sure to come back here and share your results in the comments below. And if you’re already self-employed, tell us some of the things you struggle with the most, or wish you would have known beforehand so we can learn from one another.

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Patrickkur

all the points mentioned above are true. I totally agree with you.

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Dina Eisenberg |Speak Up Powerfully

Really powerful post, Marlee, that gives us all something to think about.

Would you mind if I added two skills that get overlooked that really make the difference to success and your experience of success?

1. You have to be able to speak up to others (clients, co-workers, partners). We teach others how to treat us. Too often I see online business specialists crushed under demanding clients. Struggling with unrealistic, awkward situations because they haven’t set their own expectations/rules about client relationships.

I say the reward for being passionate and running a business devoted to your clients is you get to have things your way. Work with you ideal client on your best schedule doing exciting work. That’s the freedom you wanted when you signed up, right? You can have that once you learn how to consistently & confidently ask for it.

2. You have to be able to speak your truth to yourself. Can you see yourself? Are you aware of your unhelpful triggers, limiting beliefs and when you are out of integrity with your brand? Self-employment can be a wonderful personal development tool when you work it.

The measure of success isn’t necessarily reaching 6 figures (or at least it shouldn’t be since only 7% of independent workers ever do). Your experience of how successful you are rests on whether you keep your promises to yourself and what you tell yourself when you don’t.

You’re ready to be a successful entrepreneur, I think, when you’re as willing to grow yourself as your business. That confidence and maturity is so attractive in an online world where it’s tough to know who to trust.

Marlee, I’m proud we share being ‘transformed’ attorneys and biracial people (I’m an artisanal blend of Nigerian and Jewish American!)

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Keep It Real!

Thank you for your added insight, Dina! Great points. And so honored to share a similar background with you…attorneys turned entrepreneurs unite! :)

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Fern

very, very, very interesting test, helped me find my weak-point…..I throw the blame out to others far too easily instead of taking quick action to resolve it, every now and then I take a step back and look at where I am going and if I ‘m on the path I intended to be at the beginning and if i’m happy with the progress so far, this test will be brilliant to ask my self again…thanks

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Honor

I couldn’t leave being self-employed for anything now, although you don’t have a weigh the pitfalls in my mind. My friends have this wonderful vision of me though, they think I spend my days eating chocolates, sipping coffee and playing on facebook. In my dreams eh!

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Dave Lucas

Marlee you re a human sharpie! This is one of the best articles I’ve seen on a blog in awhile! It takes drive, determination and guts to “go solo” in the workforce… plus a few good cyberfriends (like You) to help absorb the bumps in the road!

Blog on and prosper!
Dave Lucas#Zombie Apocalypse ::: “we are all cyborgs now.” ~ Sherry Turkle

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Ameena Falchetto

This is great Marlee – I see so many people thinking that being self employed equals riches whilst sipping coffee and playing on facebook.

I know my friends and family still don’t get what I do or how I make money and I’ve been self employed for over 5 years!

I do have a lot of admiration for people who know that it’s not for them vs. the people who stand with one finger in each pie just in case things don’t work out.

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Keep It Real!

Lovely, Ameena.

Thanks for your thoughts here. It’s true – so many people have misconceptions about self-employment. I have the same exact trouble with my close friends and family. All they can ever say is “She does some kind of business coaching thing,” LOL!

I do think, though, that you have to be all in if your going to try it. I know a lot of people slowly step their way into self-employment, and that can work for awhile, but until you totally sent sail with your business you never can realize it’s full potential. Things can only succeed when they are give the proper focus and attention, so knowing yourself well and knowing if you can commit to the ups and downs of doing things on your own is very important.

Thanks for stopping by!

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Ammara Wasim

Hi!
This is very informative post. I really enjoy it. I agree on all points that you have discussed here. Thanks for sharing.

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andres

excellent post. people quit their jobs thinking that they are going to start a business from home and make loads of money quickly, they dont realise that it takes time, patience and a lot of hard work, because they dont see immediate results they abandon everything far too quickly

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nice and good

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Sonia

Excellent post Marlee! I have a few friends that want to be in business for them self and have no clue what goes into it. They also want to quit their job entirely. You have to be realistic about your current situation and make sure that you know your finances and how it will ultimately affect your private life.

It’s not to say that taking a risk is a bad thing either, but when you have responsibilities that require money each month it can be scary. I think no one should shy away from being their own boss, providing they do it for the right reasons.

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I am a freelance contractor works in different SEO jobs independently. I prefer to lead a life of my own with my own work rather listening to the complains of the BOSS. I am happy with the life style what I have now.

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Lea

Great points. I can’t wait to get more info from you.

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Jany

This was really a great article which is enlightening about the different aspects of self employment. Though there are some disadvantages of self employment, but still I think self employment is the best option for living.

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Event Photographer

I run my own event photography business and have to agree with all your points on being self employed. I think the main thing you need is control and focus. Without these you can easily become tired and lose direction.
Also on a lighter note- the most common description of the self employed.’They moan when they are busy and moan even more when they are quiet’

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Ana | how Google works

This is an excellent post. So many people quit their jobs thinking that they are going to start their own thing from home, just to end up failing. The reason is that they don’t do the required research upfront and don’t know what is really involved.

PS Wanted to make sure you saw your blog on my new CommentLuv enabled blog list!

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Bryce Christiansen

Hi Marlee,

Thanks for addressing this question. It’s a big concern and dream so many of us debate.

It’s definitely scary, but once you’ve made it, it must be such an amazing feeling.

Great work. Hope to be back often.
Bryce ChristiansenWhy Game Designers Are Better Motivators Than Your Boss

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Keep It Real!

Hey Bryce,
Welcome, and thank you for being here. I appreciate your feedback. Yes, making the decision is definitely an amazing feeling, but it’s sticking to it that presents the real challenge!

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Wez Bailey

Is self employment for me? NO. Why? Because I do not know the virtues of self discipline. But I have to admit that self employment/freelance work sure seems alluring to me, as opposed to being someone else’s slave.
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Keep It Real!

LMBO! You cracked me up, Wez. But you know, you make a great point. If you don’t have self-discipline, you can pretty much guarantee that being self-employed will be challenging. Then again, with the right support systems – it’s possible. Thanks for stopping by.

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Chas

Sometimes self-employment seems to be the only option, for some.
Some appropriate food for thought during these economic times~
there were more millionaires created during the Great Depression, than at any other time in history.

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Keep It Real!

Hey Chas!
Welcome. I love the you highlight the bright side. I think that tougher economic time bring out the best in entrepreneurs, so I know that we’ll see some incredible growth as we come out of them.

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John Garrett

It says “John Garrett’s Result: Self-Employment May Not Be For You”.

As Scooby Doo would say: “RUH ROH!!!”

Too late. I’m already doing this thing lol.

But this is (another) great article, since it (and the quiz) made me think about a couple of other pieces of business I should attend to.

Sistas (and the brothas) are doin’ it for themselves! :)
John GarrettHow to Deal with Stupid Clowns Pt 3 – Facebook Follies

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Keep It Real!

LMBO! ROFL! Oh, John. You kill me!

I’m glad it made you think, and most importantly remind you to get the support you need to shore up loose ends. Sometimes we try to do it all or ignore the small stuff and long-term that becomes a trap. I think you are totally made for self-employment, JG. I think my answers tricked ya. ;)

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Hector Avellaneda

Marlee – I am made for Entrepreneurship!

First of all, I love the new design. I had to take a second look to make sure I was int he right place but Im diggin’it! Very clean and professional!

Anyway, I took your quiz (pretty cool by the way) and it looks like I am ade for entrepreneurship. Of course I already knew this ( I think I’ve been knowing this since the time I was grade school and would collect and sell pogs to my friends, earning a small profit but enough to buy a snack a few times a week during lunch :) ).

Anyway, I’ll keep this short and sweet. One of the things that I really loved about this post was that you identified some of the skills that you have to master to become an entrepreneur.

Among them was, financial management. I think most small business owners, especially Internet Entrepreneurs, don’t really pay much attention to this but this is so KEY!

Americans have a crisis in their hands – a financial crisis, and if aspiring entrepreneurs mange their business finances anything like they do their personal finances, it’s the surest way to failing and possibly even bankruptcy.

This is one of the main reasons that I now only talk about Internet Entrepreneurship over at IEC, but also about Financial Intelligence.

Anyway, there are so many lessons to take from this post but the one that jumped out to me the most was Financial Management.

I hope my views resonate with you and your community! Keep bringing the awesome posts!
Hector AvellanedaInvesting in Gold | Why I Would Cash-Out and Run for the Hills, Today!!

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Keep It Real!

Hector – WORD!

You are so on point about not tending to financial management. Honestly, I think it’s just intimidating to a lot of people. Personally, I hate it. I do it, because I know I should. But believe me – it’s the next thing on my list of things to outsource! I’ll definitely be using your expertise in the areas of financial intelligence as it relates to entrepreneurs in the future!

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Frank

Marlee,

Great quiz and even better points. In order to be willing to do it yourself we have to understand that there is a lot more to it than making a product and cashing checks. When I was in college I though that being an self employed individual was a cake walk. I thought it was a simple process to start and run a business. Let’s just say i learned a real tough life lesson. I started a business and it tanked quickly. So quickly that I haven’t talked about it with anyone for years. I found I just had a very competitive niche and a low value product. This post will save a lot of people from jumping in too quickly without understanding what is involved. Great post.
FrankImproving Productivity with Purpose?

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Keep It Real!

Hey Frank,
I’m glad I’ve got your stamp of approval. Thanks for sharing your experience here. It’s important for people to know that it’s not as easy as it looks, but it’s totally worth it!

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Sibyl

Marlee: What a great article. I really love this article and analysis on becoming self employed. I think it is amazingly helpful for all of us that are out there in the self employment world or evaluating if it is something we want to pursue. I also appreciated that list of skills … I must admit I was wondering how many of those I am either missing or need to strengthen :) Great post and information Marlee. Thanks for sharing it.
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Keep It Real!

Hi Sibyl,
Thank you for your feedback. I truly believe that we should focus on our strengths, but that in the same stride, it’s important to know our weaknesses. Doing so also us to build the support systems we need to increase our likelihood of success. Glad you enjoyed it!

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Jk Allen

Marlee – what’s up!

Let me begin by sharing my results from the quiz:
Jk Allen’s Result: You Are Made For Entrepreneurship!

At the tender age of 24 (at the time with 1 kid and one on the way) I left the confines of the corporate world and ran my own business. The first few things I learned were:

1- it’s easier, sometimes having a boss, because that means there’s someone else to absorb some of the stress!
What stress? Dealing with demanding clients who think they own you when on retainer. Clients who constantly blow up your phone for the smallest non-issues in the world. And of course the $$ when times are slow.

2- freedom comes with a cost… which happens to be a lack of freedom.
During the 2.5 years I was self-employed I had never worked so hard before then…and to be honest, since my re-entry back into corporate America 4 years ago, I’ve never worked so hard since. It’s a different type of freedom.

This post was a great reminder for me…and I even learned that I’m MADE FOR ENTREPRENEURSHIP! Thanks Marlee!

PEACE
Jk AllenWho Needs a MBA (or any Degree) When You Have Hustle?

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Keep It Real!

Of course you are made for Entrepreneurship! Were there ever really any doubts? Not in my mind. I love your examples, though. They are SO on point!

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